A Difficult Time of Year

So, as November turns into December we come to, what for many, is an exciting and special time of year.  In years past, we had been gathering with friends and family at Thanksgiving and then at Christmas time as well.  Many of us were excited to renew relationships with people who live far away and to have time away from the normal routines of life.

But this year, many of these traditions are on hold.  Not all of us are happy as holidays approach.  Many of us suffer grief as we remember the table we plan to sit around and it’s not the same without people who have died and had sat with us just last year or maybe 20 or 30 years ago.  So too, some of us will suffer loss and anxiety as we approach family situations that are less than ideal.  And others will just miss being together with others during this pandemic time.

At this time of year, no matter your affect and the places you will be, it’s healthy to know that you are loved and cared for in an unconditional way.  This unconditional love comes from God, who has known you since you were in your mother’s womb, who sees you cry and observes your joy.  So too, our God recognizes that through His Son a new relationship has been created and a new family gained.  A family not dependent upon blood but instead upon the radical grace of Jesus Christ, who for our sake was born to face the challenges of this Earth, and just like us, knows what it is to struggle and to find joy. This holiday season, my prayer for you is that you know your family is bigger because Jesus has invited us all to the table.

Matthew 28:20b   Jesus said, “And surely, I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”